A year ago nearly to the day, my 9 year old drew a portrait of me. I am now sharing it because it’s the perfect image for International Women’s Day. In support of womanhood, my message is simple, but difficult:
Being financially able equals choice. Choice leads to equality, or at least a better quality of life while on the road to it.
Yes education is vital, but I believe that being financially able, ideally being financially independent, is more important.
I know far too many highly intelligent, very educated women who have no, or little, say in how their lives are run. Counter this with a myriad illiterate women I have happened across who run their own lives. It boils down to having enough money to put food in your belly, a roof over your and your dependents’ heads. That’s the kind of financial freedom I’m on about, not fortunes in the bank – it’s a start, because it means these women have choice.
Choice is key. Without it, other things don’t, can’t, fall into place. You can be brave for only so long if you can’t feed your baby. You can walk out of any situation that doesn’t bode well if you have this ‘c’ word.
So, here’s to equality. I don’t believe it’ll happen without women having, and exercising choice. Choice that comes with financial empowerment and the beginnings of making basic ends meet. Happy Women’s Day.
Feminism is for all. #BeBoldForChange.
Spot on! We think of you all often in February on Keenan’s birthday. Much love Fromm nancy, Mohamed, Zane and Selma
Nancy!!! Hello! Please email me… nima@finding-nima.com Biggest hug to all.
Absolutely spot on,Nima. Thoroughly enjoyed your analysis and in the end there is no better education than the one we acquire on field, in work. A theoretical foundation is a must but rather useless if not coupled with resiliency in the workplace.
I hope we can connect!
Chiara
Thank you Chiara. Interesting that most people come back with ‘education’ full stop. Here’s a thought:
Yes education is key. But once again, financial independence – now that’s powerful. Just look at how many educated people – people like you and me – are trapped in some way. Not as bad as being trapped in abject poverty or a violent situation – but still trapped. Why? Can’t sustain ourselves outside of the ‘system’.
We are now connected 🙂